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24/7 Customer Care
If you have any issues affecting your journey on our website, don’t hesitate to reach out for further support. We want your kink positive online BDSM experience to be as rewarding and as electrifying as possible. Our support team is available around the clock, every day of the year, to make sure nothing gets in the way of your bondage dating adventures.
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Who Uses Restraint Sex?
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Frequently Asked Questions
How Much Does It Cost?
Signing up is completely free. Say hello to our members and take a look at their profiles and browse the bondage community at no cost. For unrestricted conversations and access to all premium features, an optional VIP membership is available. But a free account already gives you genuine access to the kinky community and plenty of real opportunities to connect.
What Does VIP Mean?
Our VIP members are our pillars of strength, contributing to the site while enjoying real benefits: unlimited messaging with no restrictions, priority customer support, and the ability to see who has been viewing their profile. VIP members make more bondage dating connections and have the most success. Upgrade whenever you’re ready to go deeper.
How Private Is It?
Your privacy is kept completely secure. Your personal information is never shown on the site without your consent — you determine what to share and when. We treat your data with utmost importance and will never disclose it to third parties. Our no-download browser access also means nothing appears on your home screen to raise unwanted questions.
Will You Spam My Inbox?
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What’s On the Site?
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Do I Need to Download an App?
No download is ever required. Restraint Sex works directly through your mobile or desktop browser — full access to messaging, your Activity Feed, kinkster profiles, BDSM articles, and every feature. Nothing on your home screen, complete discretion, from the moment you join.
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